An open trade when you suddenly have to leave the desk
Posted: Thu Oct 15, 2026 9:04 pm
An open trade when you suddenly have to leave the desk
Doorbell, phone call from family, a kid who needs something now. You're in a scalp and suddenly you can't watch it. What do you do?
Decide this in advance, because in the moment you'll do whatever feels easiest, and that's often leaving a trade open with no stop or a stop you haven't checked.
My rule is simple. If the stop and target are already set at the server and the trade is behaving normally, I can walk away and let it run. If I've got a mental stop, or I was going to manage it by hand, I close it before leaving. Even at a small loss. It takes two seconds.
The bit that took me a while: being OK with the close. It feels annoying to close a trade that might have worked. But a trade nobody's watching, with no real stop, is not the trade you planned. It's a different, worse trade.
If you trade around family or a day job, having stops set at the server from the start makes all of this easier. Then leaving is just leaving.
I also turned off the habit of checking the phone app every two minutes while away. The stop's there. Watching it doesn't help.
Doorbell, phone call from family, a kid who needs something now. You're in a scalp and suddenly you can't watch it. What do you do?
Decide this in advance, because in the moment you'll do whatever feels easiest, and that's often leaving a trade open with no stop or a stop you haven't checked.
My rule is simple. If the stop and target are already set at the server and the trade is behaving normally, I can walk away and let it run. If I've got a mental stop, or I was going to manage it by hand, I close it before leaving. Even at a small loss. It takes two seconds.
The bit that took me a while: being OK with the close. It feels annoying to close a trade that might have worked. But a trade nobody's watching, with no real stop, is not the trade you planned. It's a different, worse trade.
If you trade around family or a day job, having stops set at the server from the start makes all of this easier. Then leaving is just leaving.
I also turned off the habit of checking the phone app every two minutes while away. The stop's there. Watching it doesn't help.